Are you a compulsive dater? Okay wait - I actually don’t even know if there is such a thing. Therefore if you answered yes to this question, you may have a condition that is entirely exclusive to you. Regardless, the real question concerns where you meet these dates. Do you head out to all the local hot spots in search of some hotties? Or maybe you’re one of those individuals who go to churches and PTA meetings to meet other singles like yourself. Hey now, don’t get the wrong idea here. I’m not judging you at all. However, I would like to suggest a certain alternative dating. Yes indeed there are other ways to meet attractive and fun singles just like yourself. This new-age alternative dating starts in a slightly different atmosphere than you’re probably used to. I’m referring to the Internet.

What do you know about alternative dating online? Have you ever considered this as a way to meet your soul mate? It’s truly not a bad idea if you’ll just give it a chance. I know a few people who tested the cyberspace alternative dating scene a few years back. They actually love it. One of them is now engaged to a girl he met online. I still can’t believe she resided in another state. They met each other half way and started dating. Before they knew it, they were in love. How bizarre is that! Well, in this cyberspace driven world I would have to say that it’s not really that obscure. The whole chat room concept has been around for like a decade and folks are still eating it up. Of course now this has evolved to a little website called Myspace.com. This massive connection spot is all the rage now. How many people do you assume have met and dated after meeting on Myspace.com? My guess would be a whole lot.

If online alternative dating sounds right up your alley, then it’s high time you gave it a shot. I mean, what are you really waiting for anyway? Life moves fast! You might as well take full advantage of the opportunity. Get on the web and sift through a number of alternative dating sites. You can search for other singles in your area that meet your age specifications. Find someone who truly shares your interests and passions. It’s that easy with online alternative dating.

I can’t name a single person who doesn’t have some fantasies about being filthy rich. I’m quite certain that most people also have the same daydreams. Just look at the lines of people buying lottery tickets and you’ll see the stars in their eyes. My parents were by no means rich but not hurting for money. I always wanted the latest trends and my father would tell me that I was going to have to marry a millionaire just to keep up with my demands. While I knew he was joking, it was an idea that I considered. But how in the world do you marry a millionaire? Do you just walk up to people in the streets ask them if they’re rich and single? It’s a great fantasy but not one that most people have the pleasure of turning into a reality.

There are reality TV shows that allow people to compete for the opportunity to win the heart of and marry a millionaire. That just doesn’t seem to be the proper way to court and fall in love. But stuff like that brings in viewers and more viewers ensure profits for TV producers. If you really want to marry a millionaire make it happen. Just know that you might have to change your lifestyle before you even attempt to chase that dream. My father also told me that you are who you surround yourself with. If you want to be rich, surround yourself with rich people. Just make sure you are able to fit in. Normal people can’t marry a millionaire if they don’t play the part. Think about it, millionaires are probably well educated, worldly and live life in a certain manner. Remember Marilyn Monroe’s role in “How to Marry A Millionaire”? Pretend you’re her. Woo the lady or man that you’ve always dreamed of. I can’t say that just because you may get lucky enough to marry a millionaire, you’ll be happy. As much as you may think money buys happiness and for me it just might, it may have the opposite affect. Perhaps after the ownership of expensive materials gets boring, you may realize how much you don’t enjoy your lifestyle. I’m not sure why, so don’t ask. But it could happen. You’ve seen the shows and movies. There’s always the lady who does marry a millionaire and has a miserable life. Maybe he’s never around. Maybe he has girlfriends all over the place. Maybe she’s lonely and empty inside. Maybe they need to spend some of their earnings on therapy.

I certainly didn’t marry a millionaire but he is one in a million. We struggle to pay our bills some months and have arguments about money. Sure, I’d absolutely love to have a huge house and expensive cars, constant shopping sprees and go on exotic vacations. In fact that’s what I think about when I’m waiting behind all of those hopeful people in the lines to buy lottery tickets. I don’t need to marry a millionaire, I just need a few lucky winning numbers.